To cuddle a teddy 2

To cuddle a teddy 2

You should get to read the first part of this article. It’s all about the fact that good gals love to cuddle teddies. Soft fluffy, tawny but brutal beast that looks so innocent when they are cuddled. Teddies are bear, and bears are brute beast. But don’t we just love them when they look so harmless?

Your boyfriend is a bad boy.  And he fits the description given in the first point of the previous article. He starts off real aggressive to woo you and when you are just getting so soft on him, he grows cold on you. He is just prepping you for sex. If your heart is broken, take heart.

The first harm a playboy will likely do to you is to build your trust. He will show up at your door step at the right time. He will keep the dates at first. He will call you at the usual time. And it would become a routine, something you are so used to, your daily emotional dose.

Your boyfriend is a gentle man outwardly. He will definitely not bring up the word sex at the beginning of your friendship. But he has a goal. He wants to get into your pant, simple!  To him, you are nothing but another fling. But the plan is to make you feel so special. You are likely going to be hit hard below the belt, and the area of weaknesses that he will capitalize on is where your self esteem is so low.

For many women, it is the looks. Ladies like to look good. He would most likely comment your looks if he sees that you feel insecure about it, especially if you always ask his opinion about your dress, or something fashion related like colours, or designs.  And if you are one that obviously prize brain above beauty, get ready to be adored for how you have been a great company, stimulating him into some wholesome intellectual exercise. You are the one that wants a man who will challenge you intellectually?  Then he will compliment your brains. The fact is that he is treading softly with you. when you begin to act emotional instead of rational, when you begin to feel way too smart for your own good, you’re just another dumbbroad, another trophy to his chain of conquest.

To be continued

Teju duru is a freelance journalist.